Hi, im 17 years old and pregnant at the moment. im having problems with the father of my child. we have been broken up for almost 4 months now and he wont stop harrassing me. a few weeks prior to us breaking up me started to controll me and literally yelled at me telling me that the reason are relationship was going bad was because of me. he had threatend to take the child from me if i broke up and also threatened to kill any man that i dated or even thought about dating. He had told me that i was his and no body elses. but as you may know it didnt stop me.
At this time in our realationship he was in basic.. on his own accord. i told him not to. and he is now blaming me for forcing him to go. After i broke up with him.. he still kept threatening to take the child when he got out of AIT. He called for about a month yelling at me and telling me that HIS name is going to be on the birth certificite, the child is going to have HIS last name. that I am NOT going to date anyone... Or even think about Mariage.
at this moment he is being court marsheled for somthing.. he wouldnt tell me. He tried to commit suicide and blamed it on me.
The thing is ive told him to stop calling me and to stop e-mailing me.. and he hasent.. he only waits a week.. then calls back using a different phone each time.
He has threatened to come up here.. (im in ks and he's in tx right now.)
and said he was going to take his son from me. and this is what im afraid of.. He has already been through this.. ive only recently found out of his other child and the mother having a restraining order on him. so i dont know what to do.
I was wondering how can i get FULL custody of the child ?
Will him having a criminal record affect the chances of him getting visitation rights?
Can i get a restraining order put up against him because of the harrassment ?
Also,
Do i Have to Put his name on the birth certificite ?
anything will be usefull to me.. i just need some help here. im starting to get really woried that his is going to take my son from me.
At this time in our realationship he was in basic.. on his own accord. i told him not to. and he is now blaming me for forcing him to go. After i broke up with him.. he still kept threatening to take the child when he got out of AIT. He called for about a month yelling at me and telling me that HIS name is going to be on the birth certificite, the child is going to have HIS last name. that I am NOT going to date anyone... Or even think about Mariage.
at this moment he is being court marsheled for somthing.. he wouldnt tell me. He tried to commit suicide and blamed it on me.
The thing is ive told him to stop calling me and to stop e-mailing me.. and he hasent.. he only waits a week.. then calls back using a different phone each time.
He has threatened to come up here.. (im in ks and he's in tx right now.)
and said he was going to take his son from me. and this is what im afraid of.. He has already been through this.. ive only recently found out of his other child and the mother having a restraining order on him. so i dont know what to do.
I was wondering how can i get FULL custody of the child ?
Will him having a criminal record affect the chances of him getting visitation rights?
Can i get a restraining order put up against him because of the harrassment ?
Also,
Do i Have to Put his name on the birth certificite ?
anything will be usefull to me.. i just need some help here. im starting to get really woried that his is going to take my son from me.