I live in NJ and have a 1 yr old niece in Florida foster care. We are in the process of having her placed with us and were told we would recieve financial help with day care and health insurance but now told we would not recieve anything and am now told they want us to adopt her right away. Florida says they wont pay outside there state and NJ says that she is part of Florida and they wont help. We are well able to take financial care of our selfs and our 2 children but with my niece being so young could not afford day care and insurance for her. I know we do have all the love that a child could need and dont want her to stay in foster care or placed with strange family. I need some advice and what are my rights. Thanks Kathy