KaylaMarie1
New Member
My husband has a child with an ex girlfriend, they were never married. She recently left Iowa and moved to Washington (the state) to avoid people calling DHS and turning her in for child abuse. Which has been more than a few times. We have no way to contact her. We want to know if their is any way we could either get out of the child support order or at least lower it without having to take custody for the child? My husband has to pay the full amount because she didnt have a job when the support was ordered. She has a job on and off but we cant get it lowered because the DHS people told us we have to have proof of her employment and income but we cant get it unless she gives it to us? We dont know what to do, the support order is killing us and were barely able to afford our house? Please help us