ChildAbuseHELP
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For nearly fifteen years, now, I have been psychologically abused and neglected by my mother, along with my younger brother of six, and my father. My father plays both parental roles in the lives of my brother and me, working his busy job, washing the dishes, keeping the house clean, paying all the bills, etc. Extraordinarily, he never complains about doing it all.
My mother, however, besides working a relatively slacker job, does nothing to help at home. She emotionally neglects all three of us. I don't mind the neglect at all - my dad and I are fully capable of providing for each other and the little one. Unfortunately, though, even with absolutely NO stress on her back, my mother mentally abuses us, complaining and insulting, literally nonstop. We try to avoid her, hoping she'd mind her own business, but she actually pursues us and continues. Every waking second of my life, I think: "Oh, I'll just endure until noon. Oh, I'll try to remain calm today...maybe things will be better tomorrow." It arouses suicidal tendencies in me. When I can't take anymore, I explode, yelling and shoving my mother away, often with my dad right behind me. Please don't judge us - we are normally passive, generous people - my mother's mental abuse is something that I am sure no one can endure. This gets her to get even crazier, screaming and thinking we're being unfair to her. The circle continues, on and on...
It happened again today, only I really lost it, and hit my mother. Not hard, but enough to make me realize that this had to stop. I needed to get outside help immediately, find out ways to remove this woman from the family. I need your professional advice - what can we do to remove her? This is a woman that does NOTHING at home, emotionally NEGLECTS, ABUSES, AND WRECKS her children and husband that provides EVERYTHING. I am personally 110% sure she is, to a degree, mentally ill, but she won't admit it, and won't visit a psychologist. I am personally afraid that any legal action will result in either my brother and I being sent to foster homes, or separated, one given to my mother, one to my father. I don't want either to happen. I only want her out of the house, never to bother us again. How?
Thank you very, very much for hearing me out. It means a lot to this fifteen year old boy.
My mother, however, besides working a relatively slacker job, does nothing to help at home. She emotionally neglects all three of us. I don't mind the neglect at all - my dad and I are fully capable of providing for each other and the little one. Unfortunately, though, even with absolutely NO stress on her back, my mother mentally abuses us, complaining and insulting, literally nonstop. We try to avoid her, hoping she'd mind her own business, but she actually pursues us and continues. Every waking second of my life, I think: "Oh, I'll just endure until noon. Oh, I'll try to remain calm today...maybe things will be better tomorrow." It arouses suicidal tendencies in me. When I can't take anymore, I explode, yelling and shoving my mother away, often with my dad right behind me. Please don't judge us - we are normally passive, generous people - my mother's mental abuse is something that I am sure no one can endure. This gets her to get even crazier, screaming and thinking we're being unfair to her. The circle continues, on and on...
It happened again today, only I really lost it, and hit my mother. Not hard, but enough to make me realize that this had to stop. I needed to get outside help immediately, find out ways to remove this woman from the family. I need your professional advice - what can we do to remove her? This is a woman that does NOTHING at home, emotionally NEGLECTS, ABUSES, AND WRECKS her children and husband that provides EVERYTHING. I am personally 110% sure she is, to a degree, mentally ill, but she won't admit it, and won't visit a psychologist. I am personally afraid that any legal action will result in either my brother and I being sent to foster homes, or separated, one given to my mother, one to my father. I don't want either to happen. I only want her out of the house, never to bother us again. How?
Thank you very, very much for hearing me out. It means a lot to this fifteen year old boy.