- Jurisdiction
- Ohio
I am not married, have two kids (Daughter 16 & Son 12), and have lived with their mother as a couple (girlfriend) for 18 years. My girlfriend has now found a new love interest, which she denies (but I have evidence that I have not shown her). I took action (hired an attorney) 1 1/2 months ago and filed parental rights and a shared parenting plan (she has been served the papers). My girlfriend has stated that our relationship can not be repaired and is making no attempts to try to work on our relationship (the relationship is over). I would like for my girlfriend to move out of my house (she has no ownership or rights to the house). She also has very little money and is also using my car (which I would also like to take from her). We don't really fight, but do have discussions about her infidelity, which she denies. We don't discuss our situation in front of our kids, but our oldest understands that something is going. With my girlfriend living in the same house as me it has became an emotional drain that is effecting not only my personal life, but work and my health.
My question: Should I ask my girlfriend to leave my house (I understand that I might have to evict her if she doesn't leave on her own)? Or, should I just suck it up and continue to allow my girlfriend to live in the same house until the custody case is over? Would it be used against me or would the courts frown on me for asking her to leave my house and also taking her only means of transportation away. It's literally killing me that she is staying in my house while I pay for everything and the money she doesn't spend she is using to hire an attorney. I know I have to be careful so that I don't look vindictive or something, but our relationship is over and I feel as though she just needs to get out of my house so that she is forced to also deal with real life issues (ie: Rent, car payment, utilities, groceries, auto insurance, car repairs....etc).
My question: Should I ask my girlfriend to leave my house (I understand that I might have to evict her if she doesn't leave on her own)? Or, should I just suck it up and continue to allow my girlfriend to live in the same house until the custody case is over? Would it be used against me or would the courts frown on me for asking her to leave my house and also taking her only means of transportation away. It's literally killing me that she is staying in my house while I pay for everything and the money she doesn't spend she is using to hire an attorney. I know I have to be careful so that I don't look vindictive or something, but our relationship is over and I feel as though she just needs to get out of my house so that she is forced to also deal with real life issues (ie: Rent, car payment, utilities, groceries, auto insurance, car repairs....etc).