Christine Miller
New Member
- Jurisdiction
- California
Last year a friend got kicked out of the place why she was staying at. I offered for her daughter to stay with me till school was over so she could graduate. My friend spends at least days a week at her boyfriend house. When she comes around it's only for a few hours, and once in a while she would sleep on the couch. But lately when she comes over she and her kids do whatever they want without even asking me, and she doesn't pay any rent or bills. 1 a month she puts food in the fridge for her kids, the rest of the month I or my boyfriend buy food to feed everyone including her kids. She gives me money once a month that is used for house items that her kids need, shampoo, conditioner, body wash, feminine needs, toothpaste etc. I tried to talk to her about the issue, and nothing has changed. I tried to talk to her about something else and she became belligerent, very angry and verbally abusive I told her I want her to leave my apartment. She said she was not going to leave, that she has right and I will have to evict her. But if she is not here for more than 48hr at a time is that considered living here? She will be gone for as long as 2 weeks at a time, come home make food for her kids shower, change her clothes, and leave again. Does her clothes being here constitute her living here? When she cleaning, it is all the mess her kids made, can I tell her to leave or do I have to evict her?