I am currently 4 months pregnant and have been struggling with finding out what is going to happen after I have the baby. I will be 18 years and 5 months old, so I will be a "legal adult". The father will be 21 at that point. We live in different states, I, Virginia, and him in Pennsylvania.
I think it would be best to get sole custody, I dont think it would be beneficial to be taking a newborn/baby or even a child back and forth between the states. He is also in college at Penn State, he has another year. Along with classes, he drinks and smokes weed and has a pop-punk band. He begged me to get an abortion, but I dont believe in that, and now he wants to try and talk like he actually cares about being a father. I have a house and ways to financially support this baby, which he doesnt even have a job or any source of income.
I dont know how to proceed in getting this sole custody, and with child support he would get visitations. I just want the best for this baby, and I dont feel safe wiith him having that right while he lives such an irresponsible life and wanted the baby dead in the first place.
Any help would be great,
Shelby.
I think it would be best to get sole custody, I dont think it would be beneficial to be taking a newborn/baby or even a child back and forth between the states. He is also in college at Penn State, he has another year. Along with classes, he drinks and smokes weed and has a pop-punk band. He begged me to get an abortion, but I dont believe in that, and now he wants to try and talk like he actually cares about being a father. I have a house and ways to financially support this baby, which he doesnt even have a job or any source of income.
I dont know how to proceed in getting this sole custody, and with child support he would get visitations. I just want the best for this baby, and I dont feel safe wiith him having that right while he lives such an irresponsible life and wanted the baby dead in the first place.
Any help would be great,
Shelby.