My boyfriend and I have been together almost 4 years. We have a 2 year old daughter together. He will not get married. After I had our daughter he made me sign an agreement for visitation and support in Missouri as if we were breaking up but we are still together. He accepted a job in New York and we moved with him accross the country. My other children had to change schools and I had issues finding a job. My children and I also changed our last names to his so that he didn't have to tell his new co workers we were not married. He makes a very very good income and pays almost all of the bills. I have noticed lately that he is texting other women and getting random texts from ex girlfriends that is very strange. In the state of New york does the arrangemnts in Missouri still hold (which he totally lied about his income on) and what is considered common law in New York? WOuld he have to pay maintance and also child support on the children that have changed their last names to his and call him dad? Am i entitled to any of the property or vehicles? He would not let me add my name to any of the homes or cars.