My wife left me and took our daughters with her...wouldn't even let me see them before she left (she had been out of town helping out a friend for 1 1/2 weeks prior to leaving). Therefore, at the time she left, I hadn't seen the children in over a week. She left the state, which she already couldn't do because neither one of us legally have custody...and since she left, she's avoided all contact what-so-ever...i.e. phone, e-mail...anything....the one and only message I got from her was an email in response to me mentioning going to her so I can see the children. She told me that I am not to go there. Isn't it illegal to prevent any contact with my children without some sort of court order?