While in the process of selling our CO home to move back to WI our daughter became pregnant by her boyfriend. She is now 17, he is 19. He lived in our CO home for almost 2 months as his mother had thrown him out of her home. We moved in Nov, he came to WI with us. Five months with us afforded him free room and board as he was not gainfully employed. At 7.5 months into the pregnancy he opted to move back to CO. He now regrets his decision. We've not invited him back as our goal now is to focus on a healthy birth instead of,perhaps, misguided choices though we do care for him. He and our daugher communicate daily and hope to remain, in the least, friends. After being instrumental in their separation, his mother is now insisting this is 'her grandchild' and she will have visitation. How do we best insure that out of state visitation with a small child is not mandatory? We are much more concerned for the well-being of our minor daughter and her unborn child than we are for financial support. He seems very reasonable but continues to be governed by parents. Does leaving him off the birth certificate hold any guarantees?