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MeaganMiller
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- Jurisdiction
- New York
I just got served with an order of protection on 12/21/2016 from my ex. He claims that I texts/called non stop and showed up to his house (All true). I was very emotional after finding out that I was pregnant with his baby and his response was for me to abort it. He became cold and distant and him not replying or answering my phone calls made me go into a panic. All of his texts messages are cold and get to the point ....such as, get a abortion now or it will only be worst for you. Or if you don't plan on aborting I don't want to hear from you ever again.
I must add that he also lied and racked up the offenses, even saying that I put my hands on me which never happened! He claims harassment, stalking, forcibly touching, strangulation, identity theft, grand larceny, criminal obstruction of breathing. ALLL LIES!!!!!
He has hit me more than once (never reported it), choked me and bit me until it left marks.
I am suppose to be leaving for dental school in January to move to Colorado and I'm just confused on what is going to happen. My court date is set for Feb 2,2017 and I will be there but, I can't fly back and fourth for this case because that will hinder me from focusing on my studies.
What are my options? Try to fight the case or just consent to it without admitting guilt? I also heard that a private agreement can also happen but what is the possibility? How will this order of protection effect me while trying to register with the state? Will jobs turn me down? Will my career as a future dental hygienist go out the window?
I must add that he is a Narcissis who seeks control and this is his way of controlling me. If I have his baby this maybe a way for him to get custody which came right out of his mouth. "If you don't abort I'll take you to court and the little money that you do have will be wrapped up in legal fees by the time I am done with you". He never implicated his self in texts only on the phone.
Ever since I got served I changed my number and deleted any emails accosicated with my iMessage. I also blocked him on all social medias. I just honestly want to know what I am up against in the next few years. Does it have a bad out look? I don't care to ever be in contact with this person because he is a terrible human being.
I just got served with an order of protection on 12/21/2016 from my ex. He claims that I texts/called non stop and showed up to his house (All true). I was very emotional after finding out that I was pregnant with his baby and his response was for me to abort it. He became cold and distant and him not replying or answering my phone calls made me go into a panic. All of his texts messages are cold and get to the point ....such as, get a abortion now or it will only be worst for you. Or if you don't plan on aborting I don't want to hear from you ever again.
I must add that he also lied and racked up the offenses, even saying that I put my hands on him which never happened! He claims harassment, stalking, forcibly touching, strangulation, identity theft, grand larceny, criminal obstruction of breathing. ALLL LIES!!!!!
He has hit me more than once (never reported it), choked me and bit me until it left marks.
I am suppose to be leaving for dental school in January to move to Colorado and I'm just confused on what is going to happen. My court date is set for Feb 2,2017 and I will be there but, I can't fly back and fourth for this case because that will hinder me from focusing on my studies.
I must add that he is a Narcissis who seeks control and this is his way of controlling me. If I have his baby this maybe a way for him to get custody which came right out of his mouth. "If you don't abort I'll take you to court and the little money that you do have will be wrapped up in legal fees by the time I am done with you". He never implicated his self in texts only on the phone.
Ever since I got served I changed my number and deleted any emails accosicated with my iMessage. I also blocked him on all social medias. I just honestly want to know what I am up against in the next few years. Does it have a bad out look? Does anyone that have had an order of protection against them can give me insight...What was your experience?
What are my options? Try to fight the case or just consent to it without admitting guilt? I also heard that a private agreement can also happen but what are the possibilities? How will this order of protection effect me while trying to register with the state? Will jobs turn me down? Will my career as a future dental hygienist go out the window?
I must add that he also lied and racked up the offenses, even saying that I put my hands on me which never happened! He claims harassment, stalking, forcibly touching, strangulation, identity theft, grand larceny, criminal obstruction of breathing. ALLL LIES!!!!!
He has hit me more than once (never reported it), choked me and bit me until it left marks.
I am suppose to be leaving for dental school in January to move to Colorado and I'm just confused on what is going to happen. My court date is set for Feb 2,2017 and I will be there but, I can't fly back and fourth for this case because that will hinder me from focusing on my studies.
What are my options? Try to fight the case or just consent to it without admitting guilt? I also heard that a private agreement can also happen but what is the possibility? How will this order of protection effect me while trying to register with the state? Will jobs turn me down? Will my career as a future dental hygienist go out the window?
I must add that he is a Narcissis who seeks control and this is his way of controlling me. If I have his baby this maybe a way for him to get custody which came right out of his mouth. "If you don't abort I'll take you to court and the little money that you do have will be wrapped up in legal fees by the time I am done with you". He never implicated his self in texts only on the phone.
Ever since I got served I changed my number and deleted any emails accosicated with my iMessage. I also blocked him on all social medias. I just honestly want to know what I am up against in the next few years. Does it have a bad out look? I don't care to ever be in contact with this person because he is a terrible human being.
I just got served with an order of protection on 12/21/2016 from my ex. He claims that I texts/called non stop and showed up to his house (All true). I was very emotional after finding out that I was pregnant with his baby and his response was for me to abort it. He became cold and distant and him not replying or answering my phone calls made me go into a panic. All of his texts messages are cold and get to the point ....such as, get a abortion now or it will only be worst for you. Or if you don't plan on aborting I don't want to hear from you ever again.
I must add that he also lied and racked up the offenses, even saying that I put my hands on him which never happened! He claims harassment, stalking, forcibly touching, strangulation, identity theft, grand larceny, criminal obstruction of breathing. ALLL LIES!!!!!
He has hit me more than once (never reported it), choked me and bit me until it left marks.
I am suppose to be leaving for dental school in January to move to Colorado and I'm just confused on what is going to happen. My court date is set for Feb 2,2017 and I will be there but, I can't fly back and fourth for this case because that will hinder me from focusing on my studies.
I must add that he is a Narcissis who seeks control and this is his way of controlling me. If I have his baby this maybe a way for him to get custody which came right out of his mouth. "If you don't abort I'll take you to court and the little money that you do have will be wrapped up in legal fees by the time I am done with you". He never implicated his self in texts only on the phone.
Ever since I got served I changed my number and deleted any emails accosicated with my iMessage. I also blocked him on all social medias. I just honestly want to know what I am up against in the next few years. Does it have a bad out look? Does anyone that have had an order of protection against them can give me insight...What was your experience?
What are my options? Try to fight the case or just consent to it without admitting guilt? I also heard that a private agreement can also happen but what are the possibilities? How will this order of protection effect me while trying to register with the state? Will jobs turn me down? Will my career as a future dental hygienist go out the window?