snoopfrogg
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I have a few questions about certain options that I have been given recently but please do not judge me on this, i am already feeling bad enough thinking about it. oh and by the way...confused but the jurisdiction thing up there...i'm a citizen of wisconsin but currently in north carolina. or would it be military jurisdiction?
here is the story, I am a marine and was stationed out in okinawa for 2 years until I finally left in february. About the end of january for about 2 weeks I was in a relationship with a female in the air force on the other side of the island. This woman had previously told me before we had any encounter that she was on birth control, and the first night which would have to be the night of conseption, i also asked her if i needed to use a condom, or also use the pull out method and i would have usually gone with option number 1. but of course, the sucker i am, i trusted her. the following weekend she had told me that she was not on the pill, and that she might be prego...which was a shock to me because i didn't think i had such super sperm to get someone prego in a week. and i figured two points to that situation, one, it's really awkward that exactly a week from our first time she decides to tell me that she's not on the pill, and two, she got prego pretty damn fast.
Our relationship ended the following weekend from her making assuptions because i couldn't stand her, she treated me very poorly, but during our last weekend together she took a pregnancy test and is in fact prego.
The first question that I need to ask is...would that be considered entrapment
To continue on...I hope you are bored. We had various mood swings from her about me being in it's life than not, about me being with her again than not, about having my last name than not, and about me being in the babies life...which i didn't change my mind about until recently. Right now I am in a place where I cannot afford a child, and I am also with one of the most deployed units in the marine corps. I do not believe that I will be able to be in the childs life unless I get married which i am soon planning, or unless i switch to a different unit. I am wondering what the custody issues would be there since I am unfit at the moment to be a parent, and how I can either keep my child support lowered, or possibly avoid paying it...i sound like a jerk but i really would like to know. thank you for your time, hopefully someone can help me work this stuff out.
here is the story, I am a marine and was stationed out in okinawa for 2 years until I finally left in february. About the end of january for about 2 weeks I was in a relationship with a female in the air force on the other side of the island. This woman had previously told me before we had any encounter that she was on birth control, and the first night which would have to be the night of conseption, i also asked her if i needed to use a condom, or also use the pull out method and i would have usually gone with option number 1. but of course, the sucker i am, i trusted her. the following weekend she had told me that she was not on the pill, and that she might be prego...which was a shock to me because i didn't think i had such super sperm to get someone prego in a week. and i figured two points to that situation, one, it's really awkward that exactly a week from our first time she decides to tell me that she's not on the pill, and two, she got prego pretty damn fast.
Our relationship ended the following weekend from her making assuptions because i couldn't stand her, she treated me very poorly, but during our last weekend together she took a pregnancy test and is in fact prego.
The first question that I need to ask is...would that be considered entrapment
To continue on...I hope you are bored. We had various mood swings from her about me being in it's life than not, about me being with her again than not, about having my last name than not, and about me being in the babies life...which i didn't change my mind about until recently. Right now I am in a place where I cannot afford a child, and I am also with one of the most deployed units in the marine corps. I do not believe that I will be able to be in the childs life unless I get married which i am soon planning, or unless i switch to a different unit. I am wondering what the custody issues would be there since I am unfit at the moment to be a parent, and how I can either keep my child support lowered, or possibly avoid paying it...i sound like a jerk but i really would like to know. thank you for your time, hopefully someone can help me work this stuff out.