sweetiepie
New Member
When I was 17 I was hanging out with friends and ended up getting drunk and passing out. I woke up next to my 22 year old friend, who said we had sex the night before. I was passed out so I remember nothing. I was so mad but I didn't know what to do so I kept quiet. A month later I found out I was pregnant from that night so I really did not want to press charges because I did not want my son to know how he was conceived. When I told the father I was pregnant he wanted me to get an abortion but I said no so he moved and didn't talk to me the whole pregnancy. His name is not on the birth certificate and my son has my last name. After I had my son he said he was going to be around, but didn't contact me for another 9 months. He recently told me he had people spying on me the entire time and knew exactly what was going on, even knew he was sick, but still never contacted me. Is there anything I can do to make sure he can't get custody or visitation? I know I can't prove what happened the night I got pregnant, but I don't want him around me or my son. He told me he was going to jail for stolen property and drugs, but I don't know if that is true or not. Is there anything I can do now, even though he legally has no rights to him as of now? I have no proof but I am scared of him. He also does not pay child support.