When I was 15 (my now husband was 18) we had a son. My parents weren't able to help support a child and neither was my husband or his family. My aunt let me come live with her.. she even told me the insurance through the state was crap and that my son would be better off with her insurance. so my family, husband (at the time boyfriend), his parents and I all talked about it and decided it was the best thing to do. The only way to do so was to give her custody. Also, she told my boyfriend not to worry about child support that she could take care of everything.. She kicked me out of her house a year later and i tried taking him with me but she wouldn't let me. My boyfriend and I got married, and kept the visitation the way it was... we were still no where near finanically able to support my son and we were still able to see him. Now 4 years later, i'm 21, my husband is 24. I'm making about 20 a year and he's making 30 or more. My work situation would be able to flex with me and understand me having my child back. My husband owns his own business and makes his own schedule. We want custody back and she's telling us there is no way she is going to let that happen.... the court, with an attorney, should let us have him back, right?!