amypolnoff
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In California, my ex made our divorce very ugly. After I received custody of three of my five children (2 were out of control and I requested they live with him), he kept serving me with OSC's causing me to constantly go to court. He also kept picking the kids up from school and making me insane with worry and get into a battle of wills in order for me to get the kids back. I finally let him have physical custody of all the kids and he provide support for me and the kids for when they came to see me. I am Bi-polar and there are many reasons due to this that I can not work. My ex started sending me some vulgar emails (long story including my two 15 year old boys going through my dresser drawers and finding personal things that became a joke at his house with his new wife being involved as well). He was reading these emails to my three 15 year olds, 14 year old and an 11 year old. I finally got fed up and filed for custody of the children again because he has shown he is not a responsible and sensible parent. He has filed to keep custody and stop my support and force me to go to work and make me pay him support. Two of my children have taken sides and refuse to see me and three will still visit me. My disability has not yet been determined by the SSI and my SDI is going to expire the day after we are scheduled to go to court. If I can't make enough to live and the judge determines against me, what will happen? Do I stand a chance getting my children back, keeping my support payments, or at least keeping my disability from being levied based on his behavior? If I end up having to pay support, will I be required to pay support for the two children who have decided they do not want to see me? We have been in court so many times, the judge has set it for trial. How can I get his income records subpoenaed from his employer and subpoena witnesses? I know this is a lot of questions, but I can not afford an attorney and I am afraid I am going to loose on all counts.
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