I have 3 children from a previous marriage ages 12, 11, and 9. The bio-father is deceased and i have remarried seven months ago. The children have decided they want to be adopted by my husband. They have taken upon themselves to change their names at school and church (unofficially of course). We have checked with local attorneys only to be told the cost is one thousand dollars for each child, Is there a way we can do the work ourselves considering there is no one to contest the adoption?