Recent content by thumperx2

true...I don't want her to hear it from him.....but from my side I feel that I would be talking to her because bio-father has pushed the issue, not because I felt that the timing in my daughters life was right. There is damage no matter what way I look....but why should I tell her when as a...

I feel that I have been honest with my daughter, my husband is the only father/daddy she has known. I belive she does have a right to know about bio-father.....I just don't see any reason she should know now......in my head she is only 13 years old.....would she be able to handle this? We...

I am struggling with telling my 13 year old about her bio-father. My husband is legally & on a daily basis her father/daddy. But now bio-father is poking around deciding he knows what's best for a child he didn't want. A few people have all posted how I should've been honest with my child ect...

Telling a child at 1 year of age that her Bio-Father doesn't want her, doesn't care for her, won't support her, would've been great for a 1 year old to start growing up with......I have been honest with my daughter her father is the man that has been here doing everything for her since she was 1...

Not trying to stop the contact after she's 18, at 18 then it would be her decision, not his not mine, but all my daughter choice.....I'm giving her the cance to at least have the choice.

Yes bio-father denied paterity and his rights were terminated. Yes I have told bio-father that I would tell her at age 18, but he doesn't agree. He thinks she shouldn't have a choice in meeting him or not.....

I do plan on being upfront with my daughter, once she can understand and act on her own as an adult. I don't see how a 13 year old would be able to understand the situation, my job as her mother is to protect her and I can't see how having "the Big Talk" with her now is going to do anything but...

Sorry new to the forum.....bear with me this is a very long post....but I felt I needed to put down as much information as possible to obtain a clear answer...... I live in Orange County California. I am the mother of a 13year old child. From her birth her bio-father has claimed no...