Shrinkmaster, you seem to getting worked up about this. I know it's not 'legal advice' in that sense. I'm only getting an idea about how certain laws work. I believe that's what this site is for and not for advice on knitting or couple's therapy. I'm aware that hiring a lawyer is in the end the...
"AJ I fear her motivation is not child but saving what appears to be a doomed relationship." I find this statement pretty insulting and it has nothing to do with me not being able to handle the truth. You don't know what my motivations are and what my relationship is like aside from basic points...
I think saying I don't know who the father is would cause some drama. I do know he's the father for sure and he'd be there in the hospital with me. I'm just looking for reasons to not sign right away until I'm more sure, without causing him to feel suspicious.
Do they come up and ask though or do you have to go somewhere yourself? I don't want him to be weirded out if I don't want to sign. Does that make sense? If they don't remind you, I'm sure he'd just forget.
Army judge, thank you for your reply. I have some additional questions. At the hospital, don't they make you sign the prove of paternity? Or is this something you only do there if you ask?
I appreciate everyone's concern. Overall he really is not a bad boyfriend and he does know his flaws. He...
Thank you for your answer. What would change if I had the child in Germany, stayed during maternity leave and came back to the States? Would that change anything about his rights?
Thank you for the advice, but I do want to stay here, because my job is here and we are still together. We want to make our relationship work, but I'm afraid that IF we break up after baby is born, how hard it will be. So you say he has no rights since we aren't married. Do you think I have a...
I'm a German citizen with a permanent Green-card. My boyfriend is an American citizen and we both live in the United States. I'm pregnant with my first child. My boyfriend wants to be in the child's life and we are happy for the most part. He does have a temper that scares me sometimes and as...