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My son has sole legal and physical custody of my granddaughter. The custody order states her mother gets supervised visitation only in the state of NY, as the mother resided in another state for the past year.
The order states visitation is to be supervised by me.
She didn't see the baby for six months, and 2 months ago, she moved to our town. She has no license, and got a job in a diner close by, on the bus route. I have been accomodating to her schedule as far as when we have visitation, but I babysit my granddaughter, and sometimes have appts and things to do myself. I would like to make set day and time so that I will know my own schedule each week. Mother refuses to commit. I also have driven her to and from some visits because she said there was no bus at that time. I don't feel I should have to be responsible for getting her there, setting up a place, jumping when she let's me know at the last minute. This girl has hurt so much in the past. Am I wrong to tell her this..I try to be very cordial so it wouldn't look bad for my son, if she should bring him to court for any reason. But a set schedule would help ease the situationn
Thanks for input
The order states visitation is to be supervised by me.
She didn't see the baby for six months, and 2 months ago, she moved to our town. She has no license, and got a job in a diner close by, on the bus route. I have been accomodating to her schedule as far as when we have visitation, but I babysit my granddaughter, and sometimes have appts and things to do myself. I would like to make set day and time so that I will know my own schedule each week. Mother refuses to commit. I also have driven her to and from some visits because she said there was no bus at that time. I don't feel I should have to be responsible for getting her there, setting up a place, jumping when she let's me know at the last minute. This girl has hurt so much in the past. Am I wrong to tell her this..I try to be very cordial so it wouldn't look bad for my son, if she should bring him to court for any reason. But a set schedule would help ease the situationn
Thanks for input