asbbigtrot
New Member
Hello, my husband and I have been together for 5yrs and married 4yrs. The home we live in is in his name only and he owned prior to our marriage. We have a 2yr old daughter together and I also have my 10yr old daughter living here and 2 horses. Our marriage has not been the best, alot of violence towards me and the children, verbal and emotional abuse. I have left him before, even got an apartment for a brief time when he convinced me that he wanted to do right by us and wanted me to come home. I moved back, brought my horses home as well. I gave up my apartment, and I never changed my physical mailing address on anything, not my vehicle mail nothing and only had the apt for 1month. I have now been back here for over a month and the fighting has begun again. I do not want to have to pack up my children and horses again and move out.I dont think the girls and I should have to go through all that again. He has since threatened to throw Me and my 10yr old out and said that he can have the county sheriff's office come and remove us without Our 2yr daughter..he says I have to leave HIS house without HIS daughter (our daughter). There are no divorce proceedings at this time, nothing filed, state of virginia does not have a legal separation either and from what I have learned up to now, in order for either one of us to file for divorce, we have to live seperatly for one year if we have a child. We only spent less than a month apart. Again, Can he throw me/us out of the home? Do I have any rights here? I dont want to come home from work monday and find my belongings in the yard and not be allowed into the house.