My husband was stationed in Md for 3 years and I live in NJ. Since he's been home now about a year it has been hell. He sleeps downstairs in the basement, every now and then comes up and sleeps in my bed. I tell him that he has no business in my bed, he has made the choice to enilealate himself from me whenever he feels like it. I want to file for divorce, but the catch is, I sold him my house in order to refinance, they added him to my deed and the loan is under his name. I have a letter from him with my and his signature stating that in the event of a divorce, since I bought the house 3 years before we married that the he wants nothing. Now he says differently. He says i'ts in his name and he wants half of whatever I make if I sell it. Please advise.