my father passed away a little over 2 years ago. his home and property was sold, and in his will it is stated that the assets will be split evenly between the four children of his. the executor of the will, his then-girlfriend when he died, has sold the estate, but refuses to distribute the money from the sale, or even say where it is or what shes done. last year when i saw her face to face she alluded to wanting compensation for having to get the house ready to sell [removing trash etc]. this was neither an implied or explicit agreement, and she knows it. it has been about two years that she's been sitting on this money, and it feels a lot like she's ransoming my assets. when i confronted her about the wheres and why's of the situation, hoping she might explain herself, she told me to talk to her attorney and stop talking to her. what can i do?