I live in Ga. Have been married 15 years. Both our names are on the house. My wife is a heavy drinker, smokes pot, having an affair, and left to be with another guy. We have 2 kids ages 11 and 13, both are with me. At what point is it considered abandonment? How do judges look at this kind of case as far as the father and custody? Now that she has packed a bag can I put her stuff on the street, change the locks? Do I have to let her come and go as she pleases?