The situation:
92: Bought 1996 Corolla
96: Met X
09/97: X graduated in NY & moved in with me in Florida. X paid half the rent.
09/98: Bought a 99 4Runner & encouraged X to sell own car. Added X to my auto insurance & X began driving Corolla. Started house hunting.
99: Bought house. X & I moved into the house. Within months, X was unemployed & NEVER contributed money towards the mortgage or bills. The cable is in X's name, but the bill is paid directly from my credit card each month.
2001: Received 1996 Avalon from my grandma. Gave Corolla to X's brother. X began driving 4Runner.
2001: Began providing X with health insurance as a domestic partner through my employment.
Since 2005: X unemployed except for summer employment in CA. X paid for most household food & items. X did most domestic chores. X is a primary caretaker for my 94YO grandma. Most of X's money during this time has come from my grandma.
2007: Bought 2008 Toyota Avalon with help from grandma, gave 1996 to my sister. X still driving 4Runner.
February 2008: I broke up with X & asked X to move out by June.
June 2008: we agreed to an open relationship.
July 2008: X left for 2 months & I got involved with someone else & told X on the phone that we were done. X asked me not to change anything in the house while X was gone, I agreed. Nothing was changed.
September 2008: X returned to the house. I asked X to move out. X refuses to move out. X refuses to accept that the relationship is over.
Need to know how to get X out of the house. Have offered to pay for a few months rent on an apartment for X. X doesn't want to accept anything. Just refuses to move.
92: Bought 1996 Corolla
96: Met X
09/97: X graduated in NY & moved in with me in Florida. X paid half the rent.
09/98: Bought a 99 4Runner & encouraged X to sell own car. Added X to my auto insurance & X began driving Corolla. Started house hunting.
99: Bought house. X & I moved into the house. Within months, X was unemployed & NEVER contributed money towards the mortgage or bills. The cable is in X's name, but the bill is paid directly from my credit card each month.
2001: Received 1996 Avalon from my grandma. Gave Corolla to X's brother. X began driving 4Runner.
2001: Began providing X with health insurance as a domestic partner through my employment.
Since 2005: X unemployed except for summer employment in CA. X paid for most household food & items. X did most domestic chores. X is a primary caretaker for my 94YO grandma. Most of X's money during this time has come from my grandma.
2007: Bought 2008 Toyota Avalon with help from grandma, gave 1996 to my sister. X still driving 4Runner.
February 2008: I broke up with X & asked X to move out by June.
June 2008: we agreed to an open relationship.
July 2008: X left for 2 months & I got involved with someone else & told X on the phone that we were done. X asked me not to change anything in the house while X was gone, I agreed. Nothing was changed.
September 2008: X returned to the house. I asked X to move out. X refuses to move out. X refuses to accept that the relationship is over.
Need to know how to get X out of the house. Have offered to pay for a few months rent on an apartment for X. X doesn't want to accept anything. Just refuses to move.
