hi..
First of all, I know this is not exactly a new topic and yes, I have read most - if not all - of the threads about marrying an American as a tourist, and the other possibilities to get married to an American. However, there are still some things that are not very clear to me - sometimes a person just needs to be sure, so problems can be avoided! -:
I am going to the United States soon under the Visa Waiver Program to visit my boyfriend and some friends I've met there during past visits. The problem is that I just came back from the United States (also VWP) after a stay of 86 days and plan to stay for maximum 90 days again.
My first question is: will there be problems obtaining entry into the United States since I visited the US twice with only 1 month between visits? I read here on the forum that the maximum stay as a tourist is 6 months.. is that per year or in total (in which case that would not be very long)? Even the US embassy here cannot answer that question!!
Secondly, my boyfriend and I want to get married and are currently looking into all the possibilities in order to decide what is best for our situation. I know that you can get married as a tourist (with the I-94 form), but how long should you wait before getting married? I think I read somewhere that you have to wait 2 months, is that correct? And most importantly, if we get married, then immediately apply for the adjustment of status and the green card - still within the legal 90 day period - do I have to leave the US again after the 90 days even though we are legally married? If so, for how long?
Thirdly, I understand that the husband has to provide an "affidavit of support", however, he is currently unemployed. What sort of problems will this give us? I have some savings and a college degree but I doubt that will be acceptable. What can we do to solve this?
We would be very grateful to receive any advice!! Thank you very much for any time and energy you may devote to helping us with our dilemma!
Sorry for my English, hope you understand everything I wrote.
All the best,
Daena

First of all, I know this is not exactly a new topic and yes, I have read most - if not all - of the threads about marrying an American as a tourist, and the other possibilities to get married to an American. However, there are still some things that are not very clear to me - sometimes a person just needs to be sure, so problems can be avoided! -:
I am going to the United States soon under the Visa Waiver Program to visit my boyfriend and some friends I've met there during past visits. The problem is that I just came back from the United States (also VWP) after a stay of 86 days and plan to stay for maximum 90 days again.
My first question is: will there be problems obtaining entry into the United States since I visited the US twice with only 1 month between visits? I read here on the forum that the maximum stay as a tourist is 6 months.. is that per year or in total (in which case that would not be very long)? Even the US embassy here cannot answer that question!!
Secondly, my boyfriend and I want to get married and are currently looking into all the possibilities in order to decide what is best for our situation. I know that you can get married as a tourist (with the I-94 form), but how long should you wait before getting married? I think I read somewhere that you have to wait 2 months, is that correct? And most importantly, if we get married, then immediately apply for the adjustment of status and the green card - still within the legal 90 day period - do I have to leave the US again after the 90 days even though we are legally married? If so, for how long?
Thirdly, I understand that the husband has to provide an "affidavit of support", however, he is currently unemployed. What sort of problems will this give us? I have some savings and a college degree but I doubt that will be acceptable. What can we do to solve this?
We would be very grateful to receive any advice!! Thank you very much for any time and energy you may devote to helping us with our dilemma!
Sorry for my English, hope you understand everything I wrote.
All the best,
Daena