jemapelle said:
Sorry for the confusion. I meant to ask how often would I have to meet with my lawyer and do other things related to this case because in 2 days I'm going to be starting college as a full time student in a city about 40 minutes away from the city that this incident took place in. I'll have classes 5 days a week and I won't have a car to get back and forth between the 2 cities. So if it would require extensive amounts of time talking to my lawyer in my hometown - I'm not sure it's possible for me to take this to court due to me being away at college.
You must go to court or faces more charges! You can hire an Attorney to appear on your behalf but it is possible Judge would order you to appear at some point. Ask your lawyer if you can avoid showing up yourself
I think I may have forgot to clarify: on my ticket it says court appearance not mandatory, and the officer told me that I don't have to go to court, I can just pay off the ticket. My only reason for doing so (going to court) is so I can keep this incident off my records. If I'm wrong in my thinking, please let me know.
shrinkmaster said:
Do not plead guilty. You have the right to an attorney by law. If you plead or are found guilty of theft, you may not even go to college, because in todays tough job market it will be hard to find a job with a theft conviction.
I have contacted an attorney and I was told that my college education would not be affected? However, future job opportunities is what I am concerned about and my reason for deciding whether or not to contest the citation and take it to court. My plan is to work in healthcare, in the worse case scenario (non traffic ordinance violation of "retail theft" goes on my record for 5 yrs in WI)- is this no longer an option? Does anyone know what kind of records hospitals check?
Norman Jr said:
Have you let your parents know? They can be a good support system for you.
I have not let my parents know - they are really really really strict and I really don't want to disappoint them right before I leave for college. I know this forum is mainly for legal advice, but I do want to tell them, but I don't know how - do you have any advice how I can approach this.
Norman Jr said:
A few questions for self reflection. You do not have to post answers here if you do not want to. Have you shoplifted before? What was the reason behind the theft? If you get off of this charge, will you shoplift again? Contact the Admin as they have great contacts with organizations to help overcome this. You have a great future, theft is not a path you want to take.
I have never shoplifted before. The LP and police officer both asked me why I did it and at the time I was in a complete state of shock that I just said, "I really don't know". I went into the store with no intention of shoplifting, I had money...ironically, enough I even had a coupon to the store, so I really have no idea what I was thinking. Upon reflecting the past few days since this incident has happened, the best explanation I can come up with for myself is that I've been beyond stressed out and nervous for college to start (I'm a first generation college student and the oldest out of my siblings, so I don't really have anyone to speak with about my apprehensions). I've never done anything illegal, and I don't mean I've never been caught, rather I've literally never done anything illegal before - I've never underage drank, never did drugs, never got any traffic violations. As I mentioned my parents are extremely strict and have always put a lot of pressure on me to do well in school. I know my actions are unjustifiable, but I think it was a moment of rebellion and breakdown. I've been having really bad insomnia due to my anxiety for college starting, I haven't been eating, and I think this was the peak of my, for a lack of a better term "self-destruction". I know I won't shoplift again - I have way too much to lose, it's a terrible thing I did to the store and everyone else, and I feel so much guilt for what I did.
Thanks again! This is a great forum, and it's really helped reduce my stress about all of this. I can't thank everyone enough.