Originally posted by scootertrash
I was asked to come to their house to play moderator while the husband got some personal things because he was leaving the wife. Both parties wanted me there because the husband gets violent and has beat on her before. I was downstairs in the kitchen, he went upstairs to get more stuff,started slaming things around,wife went upstairs,heard the wife say "leave me alone" "don't(his name)"and that's when I went upstaris. Got to top of stairs (he knew I was on my way up) where I could see him backing up and off his wife who he had just thrown down onto the matress of the bed. I went in and immediately positioned myself between him and the wife. He went to one of the dressers and grabbed a camera off the top and tried to snap it in half. Being unsuccessful at that he threw it on the floor and stomped on it once. Before he could stomp on the camera a second time I was in front of him with my arms on his shoulders and manipulated him away from the camera, about 3 feet back. This also created an escape path for the wife. Trying to talk him down to a reasonable level of thinking I turned around and went with my left hand to pick up the camera off the floor. The next thing I knew was that I was down on my knees and in a lot of pain from my right side of my face and bleeding from my mouth. At that time the wife was making her way out of the bedroom saying "I'm calling 911". He said "yea, call 'em bitch" and went downstairs. I followed. The wife was outside on a cell phone, the husband and myself were in the kitchen waiting for the cops. I was aplying a wet towel to my face,he was pacing about stating how sorry he was for hitting me and blah blah blah.... The cops came and wanted to call a ambulance for me and asked if I was going to press charges. Being from the "old school" way of life I said no but how long do I have to decide? The cops said 24 hrs. After everybody left, the wife and myself figured I was going to need a "couple" of stitches and drove up to the hospital and she called my wife to fill her in. After getting 9 stitches inside my mouth,8 to 10 x-rays and a catscan and not having med insurance, the dicission to press charges came easly to me. It' been 4 1/2 weeks, I still have a small hole in my mouth and the doc say's I need a specialist to look at my jaw, it's got a fracture up in the upper hinge area and they will decide to either leave it to try to heal on it's own or have to "screw a metal plate" on to it! So there ya have it, no accident,no punches thrown by the wife or myself and no court date as of yet. And also, the husband had said during a phone conversation to his wife that "he hit me before I had a chance to hit him." How's that for details? Thank's again. P.S. got a feeling my jaw ain't the only thing thats going to get screwed on this! Gotta love our justice system!!