Over the past four decades I've read quite a bit of history from the time period, including writings from both the Northern and Confederate leaders themselves. I have a pretty good idea what the Confederates were about, and it wasn't about the revisionist history the Confederates themselves started preaching in the latter part of the 19th Century and that so many Southerners today seem to believe.
As a result, I have no admiration for any of them. The Confederate leaders were not, in my view, honorable men and women. But perhaps you feel differently about them than I do.
What TOS do you think I've violated? I've been at least as respectful to you as you have been to me.