Somebody stole a private video and she post it in facebook. What can a do please help.

[Maricela]

My boyfriend was visiting his kids and he lost hes cell phone his ex wife took a private video from us from his cell phone she was laughing and she told us the we need to do wherever she want if we not she will post it in facebook, i call the police and they talk to her letting her know if she post it she can be in trouble, so she make a fake profile and she send msj to my family and friends and she used the same fake profile to post the video adding all my family and friends, she recognized in front of my boyfriend the she did it.. What a can do legally plz help,(have kids and i felt depressed for all this need to relax and forget about it but my mind is all crazy i can't stop crying and thinking every one saw the video I can't look at people in this moment..plz help i live in washigton state.

 

[shrinkmaster]

Report it to Police and contact any website she post it on she does not own video as well as site she uses to send it

 

[Maricela]

She close her fb but we know she did it.. We when to the police they told me to put a restrained order or get attorney to see what can we do, im trying but I don't have money to spend cause i have my family and bills.. I saw this post online but the police said they are not sure how this work with out attorney

 

[army judge]

She close her fb but we know she did it.. We when to the police they told me to put a restrained order or get attorney to see what can we do, im trying but I don't have money to spend cause i have my family and bills.. I saw this post online but the police said they are not sure how this work with out attorney

I suggest you refuse to participate in any video that could one day cause you any embarrassment.
If someone loves you, he or she won't ask you to memorialize (by taking a picture of a video) of you doing something in private that you wouldn't do in public.

Think about it, why would a person that likes or loves you want to have you doing something you wouldn't want your mother, your son, your cousin, or your best friend viewing?
That's not an act of love, that's what some folks call porn, and others call "pimping".

If you and the one you love, or the one you choose to be with for a one night romp asks you to take a video or pose for a picture, just say, NO, THANKS, I R-E-S-P-E-C-T myself too much to allow you to cause me any embarrassment.

Yes, some people get prosecuted for these actions, but do you really want to go to court, testify to the fact that YES, your honor, that's me naked in that video with his "man part" in my "orifice", and YES, I let him put that "toilet plunger" in that place, while I spanked him wearing that diaper!

That would be extremely embarrassing, because you're saying all that "naughty" stuff in open court before strangers, friends, enemies, and relatives!!!!

So, the best thing to do is IGNORE this and if anyone ever asks you to do that again, RUN AWAY and politely say, NO way am I ever going to do anything like that!

You see, Maricela, sometimes the law helps by making it worse.

Imagine how traumatizing it must be for a rape victim, a child that was molested, or the family of those victims to hear them recite what those creepy, deviant, perverts "conned" them into doing.

I suggest you sever all ties with the person you convinced yo be in a video doing something you find uncomfortable today.

Besides, what positive reason would anyone have to record embarrassing things?

Tell the person you wish him or her well, but its best you never see each other again.

That's the first step in helping you get over the trauma and embarrassment of this sordid incident.

I wish you well, and I hope you take some time to think about this and get to a happier place.

 

[Betty3]

Just ask any site she posts it on to remove it & then forget about it.

 

[Highwayman]

May I ask why everyone continues to entertain questions in an area of the forum that is specifically off-limits to legal questions?

 

[army judge]

May I ask why everyone continues to entertain questions in an area of the forum that is specifically off-limits to legal questions?

The professor tries to categorize things, but people sometimes don't understand it.
I sometimes make an effort to move things, as do other mods, as we try to keep things tidy.
However, its more important to provide answers and have a dialogue than it is to allow our OCD to overcome our willingness to help.

 

[Highwayman]

Well, that's why many of these folks are in trouble to begin with (especially traffic) - because they don't read signs and follow directions!

 

[army judge]

Well, that's why many of these folks are in trouble to begin with (especially traffic) - because they don't read signs and follow directions!

That is precisely why many of the criminal defendants I've met end up in a pickle, plus many others lack common sense, many are afflicted with STUPIDITY, and others are driven by greed. A few are just plain ornery, mean, with an immense predilection towards violence.