i dated a guy for a short time period, ( im in high school) after the first week he started asking for sex and that made me uncomfortable and frusterated so i got the guts to finally break up with him shortly after that. he's the kind of guy who's proud of how many girls he has scored with, and I never really knew that until i started dating him and hearing about it. he has a very high ego, he thinks hes good at everything, and above everyone, he tries to be some1 hes not (just telling you a little what his personality is like) after i broke up with him he was sweet with it after like one day n then once people started to figure out that we were separated he started telling people that he broke up with me, that i got tag teamed(raped by a group of guys), that i was probably sick from the tag team n thats why he didnt want to have sex with me (which contradicts the fact he asked me for sex) and also that we had sex( which also contradicts all the fact he said he didnt want to have sex with me because I was probably sick as i could have an std or whatever) he trashed me out to every1 he knows, and he is popular so he knows a lot, and most of the school thinks that all of those rumors are true. You can tell that his lies are all over since they contradict) this is my proof when i tell people everything is not true about me. I cant go anywhere without people gossiping about me n calling me a h** or a s*** and many other very insulting names. my rep is badly hurt, and im harassed everyday due to my damaged reputation of the rumors he had spread about me and for all i know he has said i wouldn't be surprised if there is more. id say about half of my school or more knows about these rumors and and gossip about me and they insult me and trash me on the daily basis. I have confronted him many times about this but there is no end he denies it every time when i have proof, he is assassinating my character and my emotional burden is very heavy, because of the mocking and verbal bullying i have bad anxiety and i am depressed and very stressed. because of this issue i fear of going to school everyday, i am in summer school now and he carried the whole slander game over to summer school as well, where i am harassed n gossiped about everyday by a big group of his friends who intimidate me. in a couple months he will be 18 years old.
people dont want to be friends with me that "knew" what happend to me, im mocked and badly hurt, its very verbally abusive, there is really no way to stop him ive confronted him many times, and people think im trashy n disgusting, and none of these are true, we never had sex or messed around or anything n in fact im a germaphobe n i didnt even hold his hand once while we went out. theres no way out of this i really need him to stop n he wont, these rumors keep spreading farther n farther, what he says is very influential to everyone becasue he is what you call popular and he uses that for intimidation, slander has spread all over the school and i dread school everyday..please help me this may sound very stupid but its very deep and hurtful and it has been going on for several months but i just now found out i could take leghal actions. also i am 16 years old
people dont want to be friends with me that "knew" what happend to me, im mocked and badly hurt, its very verbally abusive, there is really no way to stop him ive confronted him many times, and people think im trashy n disgusting, and none of these are true, we never had sex or messed around or anything n in fact im a germaphobe n i didnt even hold his hand once while we went out. theres no way out of this i really need him to stop n he wont, these rumors keep spreading farther n farther, what he says is very influential to everyone becasue he is what you call popular and he uses that for intimidation, slander has spread all over the school and i dread school everyday..please help me this may sound very stupid but its very deep and hurtful and it has been going on for several months but i just now found out i could take leghal actions. also i am 16 years old