army judge
Super Moderator
Purpose of my post was to get a smattering of impartial opinions from people I expect to be knowledgeable on the subject which I think I've gotten - thank you. I've already decided to hire legal counsel.
If you ever find yourself in any legal dilemma, it is best to speak ONLY to an attorney.
I won't bore you with all of the WHYS, just be smart, keep your mouth shut and speak only to an attorney licensed in the state from whence the matter began.
Talking to other people (known or unknown to you) doesn't preserve your legal rights as does talking to a licensed attorney.
Good luck.