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MY BOYFRIEND HAS BEEN SEPARATED FROM HIS WIFE FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS NOW BUT THEY ARE STILL MARRIED AND SINCE THE DAY THAT HE LEFT HE HAS PAID HER CHILD SUPPORT EACH WEEK 80.00 DOLLARS. AFTER HE LEFT HE PAID ALL OF THE BILLS FOR 2 MONTHS WHICH EQUAL TO AT LEAST 800 A MONTH. WHEN THEY WENT TO COURT THROUGH THE ATTORNEY GENERAL THEY ORDERED HIM TO PAY 100.38 A WEEK (435.00 A MONTH) AND SAID HE OWED BACK PAY OF 1072.00. TO ME THAT SOUNDS VERRRY UNFAIR OF HIM OWING THE BACK PAY AND TOP THAT OFF WE PAY 91.00 A MONTH FOR HEALTH INSURANCE. AND THE MOTHER WANTS US TO PAY FOR THE VISITS FOR WHEN HE HAS TO GO TO THE DOCTER. OH AND ANOTHER THING WHEN THEY FILED INCOME TAX TOGETHER SHE WANTED 75% OF IT SO HE GAVE IT TO HER TO SHUT HER UP AND WE ASKED HER TO SIGN A PAPER SAYING THAT SHE RECEIVED THAT AND SHE WILL NOT. NOW THEY ARE GETTING 800.00 BACK FOR CHILD TAX CREDIT AND SHE WANTS 600.00 AND GIVE US 200.00. TO ME THAT SOUNDS GREEDY!!!! THE CHILD SUPPORT THAT SHE GETS GOES TO HER HAIR BEING DYED AND HER NAILS BEING DONE. EVERYTIME WE GET THE CHILD HE IS IN FUNKY CLOTHES OR ALWAYS IN WHAT THE GRANDMA BOUGHT FOR HIM WE NEVER SEE HIM IN SOMETHING NEW. SO MY QUESTION IS:
WITH THE BACK PAY IS THAT FAIR OR RIGHT EVEN THOUGH HE HAS BEEN PAYING BEFORE COURT AND IS THEIR ANYTHING THAT CAN BE DONE ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION.. ONE MORE THING CAN SHE JOIN THE ARMY AND TAKE HER SON WITH HER EVEN IF THE FATHER DISAGREES WITH IT PLEASE HELP!!!!!
SHE STEADILY USES THE CHILD AGAINST HIM WHEN SHE CAN'T HAVE HER WAY!!
MY BOYFRIEND HAS BEEN SEPARATED FROM HIS WIFE FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS NOW BUT THEY ARE STILL MARRIED AND SINCE THE DAY THAT HE LEFT HE HAS PAID HER CHILD SUPPORT EACH WEEK 80.00 DOLLARS. AFTER HE LEFT HE PAID ALL OF THE BILLS FOR 2 MONTHS WHICH EQUAL TO AT LEAST 800 A MONTH. WHEN THEY WENT TO COURT THROUGH THE ATTORNEY GENERAL THEY ORDERED HIM TO PAY 100.38 A WEEK (435.00 A MONTH) AND SAID HE OWED BACK PAY OF 1072.00. TO ME THAT SOUNDS VERRRY UNFAIR OF HIM OWING THE BACK PAY AND TOP THAT OFF WE PAY 91.00 A MONTH FOR HEALTH INSURANCE. AND THE MOTHER WANTS US TO PAY FOR THE VISITS FOR WHEN HE HAS TO GO TO THE DOCTER. OH AND ANOTHER THING WHEN THEY FILED INCOME TAX TOGETHER SHE WANTED 75% OF IT SO HE GAVE IT TO HER TO SHUT HER UP AND WE ASKED HER TO SIGN A PAPER SAYING THAT SHE RECEIVED THAT AND SHE WILL NOT. NOW THEY ARE GETTING 800.00 BACK FOR CHILD TAX CREDIT AND SHE WANTS 600.00 AND GIVE US 200.00. TO ME THAT SOUNDS GREEDY!!!! THE CHILD SUPPORT THAT SHE GETS GOES TO HER HAIR BEING DYED AND HER NAILS BEING DONE. EVERYTIME WE GET THE CHILD HE IS IN FUNKY CLOTHES OR ALWAYS IN WHAT THE GRANDMA BOUGHT FOR HIM WE NEVER SEE HIM IN SOMETHING NEW. SO MY QUESTION IS:
WITH THE BACK PAY IS THAT FAIR OR RIGHT EVEN THOUGH HE HAS BEEN PAYING BEFORE COURT AND IS THEIR ANYTHING THAT CAN BE DONE ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION.. ONE MORE THING CAN SHE JOIN THE ARMY AND TAKE HER SON WITH HER EVEN IF THE FATHER DISAGREES WITH IT PLEASE HELP!!!!!
SHE STEADILY USES THE CHILD AGAINST HIM WHEN SHE CAN'T HAVE HER WAY!!
