My husband and I have been married for 10 years. Through the course of the 10 years we had 3 children 3,6 and 8. I started working 2 years ago (making low 40K) and my husband is making upwards of 70K. He can make more but chooses to be comfortable where he is. He owns stock and we have a home. He has also had affairs or as he says gone on dates that nothing has happened. He stated to me years ago that, "when someone has the same thing all the time you want to try somthing new". Be that as it may if I say to much more and he is familiar with this site he willknow it is me. I need to know if you can be married and live in the same home, can I get spousal support and child support. He says I can't get a divorce and that if some how i do he will quit his job and get a lower paying one. A girlfriend of mine suggested i ask this because he might do it b4 i initiate divorce proceedings