I need help I dont know where to start
Maybe you start by contacting these fine folks. tell them your story, ask if they can help you.
Every California County has an Adult Protective Services (APS) agency to help elder adults (65 years and older) and dependent adults (18-64 who are disabled), when these adults are unable to meet their own needs, or are victims of abuse, neglect or exploitation.
County APS agencies investigate reports of abuse of elders and dependent adults who live in private homes, apartments, hotels or hospitals.
For whom:
These services are available to any elder or dependent adult regardless of income.
Highlights:
* Services are available to any person, regardless of income.
* Services are available in all 58 counties.
CA Department of Social Services, Adult Protective Services
Adult Protective Services
To report abuse, call this number 1-833-401-0832 and when prompted enter your 5-digit zip code to be connected to the Adult Protective Services in your county, 7 days a week, 24 hours a day. There are many types of abuse.
These lawyers MIGHT be able to offer you a few tips:
What Is Elder Financial Abuse Under California Law? | Dolan Law Firm
How to Recognize and Report Elder Abuse in California | (2020) Guide, Tips, Info - Berman Lawyers
Elder Abuse - Stone Sallus