I have a soft sympathetic spot for single, out of work mom's who get scammed out of much needed cash. I am just hoping that you truly do not know the seller and are completely innocent here -- please see my comments at the end of this response. The eBay legal department is contacting me regarding a discussion concerning points you raised to me about the eBay and PayPal Buyer Protection plans and programs that also concern me and have greatly piqued my curiosity.
1. I understand why you were confused. To me, the eBay buyer protection insert looks more like a confirmation that the item qualifies for buyer protection rather than a teaser that eBay's general protection plan is in effect and may be covered IF the item qualifies. The latter is what a lower level eBay support person seems to have confirmed with me. It's certainly not ideal but let's say people might click "learn more" before relying on it.
2. The "learn more" link leads to a mini-version of the eBay buyer protection plan and isn't even the full details. You have to click to a third link which I looked over.
3. I couldn't find anything listed which would state that this item wouldn't qualify under the eBay Buyer Protection Plan. However, I did notice that it said that if you file a claim under the PayPal Buyer Protection Program, you couldn't file a claim under the eBay Buyer Protection Plan. My first thought was - so what? Shouldn't they be essentially identical? After reviewing the eBay Buyer Protection Plan, I couldn't find any area which states that intangible items, such as websites and software, were not covered under the eBay Buyer Protection Plan. This is very peculiar.
I've noticed in your post you state that PayPal told you that you couldn't file a claim under the eBay Buyer Protection Plan because you had already contact PayPal. That's correct but I'm discussing (a) whether there is a discrepancy and, if so, why there is a discrepancy between the PayPal Buyer Protection Program and the eBay Buyer Protection Plan, and (b) whether you can withdraw your PayPal claim and file under eBay if you qualify to get your money back.
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That said, the eBay auction listed for a website reads like a scam to me although it may have fooled. A few things - I don't know why you'd buy a website from a seller in Canada unless you live in Canada. The US website seems to cover US citizens and I would think that if you're in Canada you'd use that site. What happens often is that people will conspire to get the insurance money - person A puts up a fraudulent ad, person B buys the item, sends money to their friend A, and then B files a claim for fraud later after the money is gone (not really since the two know each other.) They know all about these and, by default, deny claims.
1. The seller has one rated transaction. This is always a warning sign when doing business on eBay. I will rarely buy anything from anyone with a very low rating, especially not international and certainly not a high priced item. Most people will sell small items to build up credibility.
2. It appears you may live in Canada and you too have only 2 ratings, one of which is from this transaction. To eBay, you're certainly a questionable person.
3. If you live in Canada, I don't know how you're even covered by the eBay US site.
4. I've looked at the site - it's not that great. Why would you believe someone you don't even know who would tell you that they are making so much money from a store without proof provided first?
I'll say this much - with all of the above, I don't doubt you'd be flagged as a big question mark for a claim. I am not accusing you of anything, just letting you know what many people at eBay might take as probable.
Here is the eBay ad sans the sensitive information.
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