First off My children and I live in WV, my ex and i have been seperated for over a year now and during that time she has had practicaly nothing to do with our children not even so much a phone call to wish them a merry x-mas , but i was just recently served papers stating that i have to go to court for custody of my three children, and one of her request is that paternity test be done, children is 7,6 and 4 and I'am on the birth certificate as their father, and I do not deny them as mine. Q- Is there a way that I can have the peternity testing stoped seeing that im not dening them as my own?