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Your story saddened me.
I hope my response will brighten your day.
First of all, it is NOT too late to report what that creature did to you.
No need to reveal any more details here, I get it.
You will need to tell those horrible things to the detectives who will see to it you get justice.


I suggest you contact local law enforcement where you are located today.
Ask them if you can report sustained sexual abuse you suffered as a child between the ages of 14 to 16.
That will start the ball rolling, I hope.
The detective you speak with will advise you what can be done where you are, hopefully contact his/her NY counterparts, or direct you to do so.

Either way it is not too late.

Please hold on a few more hours, or go tonight, RIGHT THIS VERY MINUTE to the nearest police station and say, "I need help. I was sexually abused for two years starting at age 14 in NY state."

PLEASE, do me a favor.
Let me know what you decide to do, and keep me posted as the days pass.

God bless you, and there is help out there, you just have to get the ball rolling.

Don't wait, don't put it off, because if you do; it'll be too late to do anything to your sexual abuser.

Plus, you can eventually sue him civilly, and obtain a money judgment against him.

God bless.


Under New York law, victims of sexual abuse have until the age of 23 to bring either criminal charges or file a civil lawsuit against their alleged abusers.

 

I agree.
Do one of two things.
1. Go to your local police station during regular business hours and ask to speak with a detective regarding juvenile sex crimes or domestic violence. This could fast track you past the beat officer and keep you from having to repeat your story to many people.
2. Contact a mental health crisis center and ask for help/support in making the report if you feel uncomfortable about doing it alone. They should be able to put you in contact with someone who is trained to help you through such things.

What you should not do is continue to keep this to yourself.

 

The OP is a vague about what actually happened to her besides "bruises". She said he tried to force her into sex as if the sex didn't actually occur.

Also, she didn't say where the monster is living (NY?) and I'm assuming the events occurred in New York.

 

Llizzie, whatever else you do, please contact a counselor. Anyone who's been abused in any way needs that kind of help recovering.

 

In the end it's up to you to get your life back on track. So MANY people go thru bullcrap in their life. So your not alone in this issue. It's time to see who you really are by pulling yourself together. Set goals in your life and bust your butt to make them. Your alive so it can be done if you put your mind to it. The past is the past and shouldn't defind who you are today. It should make you stronger knowing that you pushed thru it. I just told my daughter this yesterday.... Right now this very minute there are military personel that are fighting for their life. So there is nothing that should hold you back from doing things. If these 17,18,19 year olds can make it thru their military lifes you can to. Good luck