O.k. I joined the army on 16 NOV 2006. It had been something I've wanted to do for a while. I have three children ,so I talked it over with my wife and she supported me. While I was away conducting my 12 weeks of basic combat training she managed to not only spend all of the money that I made on her boyfriend instead of taking care of our kids, but she also got pregnant by him. We have since split up and I have full custody of my three children. The problem I'm having is that she will not grant me a divorce and is now using the army's leagle system to draw a heafty portion of my pay. I will be deploying soon and I need to resolve this before I go so that the person I appointed as temperary guardian can have the money I make to take care of my kids not to mention do my job knowing that things are o.k. at home. How can i make her give me a divorce in the next four months? I'm in WA and is in TX. We were married in AR so that is the state that I am going to file in. Also she has warrants in AR. I don't know if that will help me, but I figure it can't hurt.