Need help asap

[Sadiis]

Hello, I have a big issue that I need help with. It is a long story but I will try to make it short so that you can see the whole situation. I was divorced back in 1998. My ex got custody of the two oldest and I got the youngest. Now I was a stay at home mom almost the whole time we were married. (for 11 yrs) So when he wanted a divorce I had no job or money to fight him. It worked for a while. then I moved to OR, that is when everything changed. He decided to go for full custody of our youngest.(she was 3 at the time) He went to court with his new wife, told lies(there were later shown to be false), and got custody without me even knowing.(I never got a paper saying I had to come fight for her) Now fast forward to the last 4 yrs. My ex is now on his 3rd wife, there are now 8 kids & 1 on the way plus 4 adults living in a small 4 bdrm home. The living conditions are horrible(I have pics, videos, and eye witness statements) We were able to get child services to finally come in and take the kids out of the home and 7 of the children put into foster care temporarly. (#8 was not born yet) Then right as it was getting ready to go to court, child services backed out and the kids went right back to that House. Even though there was more than enough proof of child abuse, horrible living conditions, excessive drinking by the males in the home, children watching children while the adults were gone, animals having the run of the house and using it as their personal bathroom, etc. The CS workers even cried when shown the pics and when talking to the kids. Now no one will tell us why CS backed out. Now, finally after not seeing my son(who is now 18 and can leave the home on his own) and my daughter who is 14 for 2 yrs, they are here in Oregon where I live.(the father lives in KS) Now my daughter is afraid to go back to her fathers' now that she is away from there. She is having nightmares and has stress acne(diagnosed by a doctor) from living in that horrible environment.(it is now clearing up just since being here). What can we do? The age is 16 to be emancipated in the state of OR. The father still has custody. She has even talked about running away.. I can't let her do that nor can I force her to go back to that horrible place. Please someone help! (and please I dont need or want idots telling me I am a bad parent or take him to court, etc. I am a great parent and I have spent 11 yrs going to court back & forth with him) Thank you in advance for your help..

 

[Proserpina]

Your remedy is what you don't want to hear.

Take him back to court for custody. File an ex parte motion immediately.

Emancipation is NOT an option.