i have a 13 year old son, i live in ga and his father lives about 150 miles from me .
his father has not really been in his life, everytime my son sees his father its only after i (his mother) has wrote a letter to his dad in hopes he would be a part of his life and then his dad would come see my son but after that he would not contact my son anymore.
it has always been me contacting his dad for 13 years.
my son has visited his dad where he lives 3 times in 13 years.
he is court ordered through child support enforcement to pay support and he pays here and there, off and on,, not regularly by a long shot.
he has never bought him 1 christmas present or birthday or even sent him a card and has never helped with a thing.
my sons dads name is not on my sons birth certificate and there are no papers regarding visitation or anything else.
i want to know what rights do i have and what rights does he have.?
my son just got back from a 2 week visit wtih his dad (again only because my son wrote him a letter and we had not heard from him for 2 years before my son write the letter) and i let my son go visit him but i did not know that my sons dad had just let this woman move in with him and they are sleeping together in the same bed (my sons dad and this woman) and this is something i dont agree with and i do have certain values that i want to instill in my son and also his dad smokes marijuana and i know that he carries it on him at all times and has it either in his pocket or his vehichle and i dont like this either.
my son has severe allergies and the last time my son went to visit his dad which was years ago he ended up coming back home and having fliud in his ears because people in my sons dads family was smoking ciggarrettes around my son and i asked his dad this time when my son went back to make sure noone smokes around him because of this and people still smoked around him.
i feel like i should have some say so.
also my son was left alone with another 17 year old boy who of course i do not even know ( this boy is my sons dads girlfriends son) and so they both were left alone all day from early morning until evening while my sons dad went to work for several days and i do not like this either, i never leave my son alone all day like this.
he is 13 years old but he is developmentally slow and he is in all special classes at his school and is just not mature enough to be alone a whole day like that.
my son wants to go back again before school starts back and visit again and i dont know what i should do about any of this.
do i have any rights ?
i know he could go to court and get rights and that is not what i want to happen and i am letting him see his son (again he has never acted like he really wants to be a part of my sons life) but i feel i am lettting him see him but what rights do i have here??
his father has not really been in his life, everytime my son sees his father its only after i (his mother) has wrote a letter to his dad in hopes he would be a part of his life and then his dad would come see my son but after that he would not contact my son anymore.
it has always been me contacting his dad for 13 years.
my son has visited his dad where he lives 3 times in 13 years.
he is court ordered through child support enforcement to pay support and he pays here and there, off and on,, not regularly by a long shot.
he has never bought him 1 christmas present or birthday or even sent him a card and has never helped with a thing.
my sons dads name is not on my sons birth certificate and there are no papers regarding visitation or anything else.
i want to know what rights do i have and what rights does he have.?
my son just got back from a 2 week visit wtih his dad (again only because my son wrote him a letter and we had not heard from him for 2 years before my son write the letter) and i let my son go visit him but i did not know that my sons dad had just let this woman move in with him and they are sleeping together in the same bed (my sons dad and this woman) and this is something i dont agree with and i do have certain values that i want to instill in my son and also his dad smokes marijuana and i know that he carries it on him at all times and has it either in his pocket or his vehichle and i dont like this either.
my son has severe allergies and the last time my son went to visit his dad which was years ago he ended up coming back home and having fliud in his ears because people in my sons dads family was smoking ciggarrettes around my son and i asked his dad this time when my son went back to make sure noone smokes around him because of this and people still smoked around him.
i feel like i should have some say so.
also my son was left alone with another 17 year old boy who of course i do not even know ( this boy is my sons dads girlfriends son) and so they both were left alone all day from early morning until evening while my sons dad went to work for several days and i do not like this either, i never leave my son alone all day like this.
he is 13 years old but he is developmentally slow and he is in all special classes at his school and is just not mature enough to be alone a whole day like that.
my son wants to go back again before school starts back and visit again and i dont know what i should do about any of this.
do i have any rights ?
i know he could go to court and get rights and that is not what i want to happen and i am letting him see his son (again he has never acted like he really wants to be a part of my sons life) but i feel i am lettting him see him but what rights do i have here??