If my son tries to file a civil suit after this man is hopefully convicted , the attorney we are planning to use said that the my space will hurt him in the civil case. He said the other attorney is going to dig up everything on my son, and I mean everything because his ex-girlfriend knows everything (dui-2, drunken arguments, suspended license). All this is documented on his my space, which his girlfriend has hard copies. He recently set his my space profile to private and I am after him to delete it. He is 21 and has his own apartment. Our attorney said if the jury hears that he is no angel and is just pursuing this for the money, they will be angry. Believe me though, he did suffer pain and suffering and lost time from work. Medical bills are up to $ 17,000 plus, paid in full by my insurance company and my sons co-pay money. Our attorney asked if we still want to pursue a civil case because of all the my space and driving violations. What do you think?