Andromeda
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- Missouri
My mom and dad are getting divorce due to my dad having an affair. My mom "knew" to an extent that something was going on for awhile and my grandma was also suspicious. Surprise! He was having an affair and even had a child.
Due to my grandma pretty confident that he was she wanted to make sure just in case that my mom and myself were taken care of. So she put her assets into a trust and made my mom the sole trustee. My dad filed himself yesterday and my mom had been talking to an attorney a bit ago preparing things but never got into this question as she was confident that it would be protected. She called her attorney and found out he just had open heart surgery and plans to retire. So she had to get a new one and is waiting on a call back. We are both freaking out now as my dad said his attorney told him that he would end up with her assets anyhow (regardless of the trust), specifically one of her houses she left me. Yes he is being crappy already.
So my question is how do trusts work? I was under the impression that if you setup a trust and designate a trustee that the assets are protected? How is he able to just take everything after their divorce is finalized? My grandmother is also still alive, so my mom isn't sitting there with the trust to distribute I guess?
Anyways I hope this all makes sense, I know this needs to be addressed by an estate attorney. But my mom called me very upset of course and may not get in right away so I was hoping someone could shed some light on this?
Due to my grandma pretty confident that he was she wanted to make sure just in case that my mom and myself were taken care of. So she put her assets into a trust and made my mom the sole trustee. My dad filed himself yesterday and my mom had been talking to an attorney a bit ago preparing things but never got into this question as she was confident that it would be protected. She called her attorney and found out he just had open heart surgery and plans to retire. So she had to get a new one and is waiting on a call back. We are both freaking out now as my dad said his attorney told him that he would end up with her assets anyhow (regardless of the trust), specifically one of her houses she left me. Yes he is being crappy already.
So my question is how do trusts work? I was under the impression that if you setup a trust and designate a trustee that the assets are protected? How is he able to just take everything after their divorce is finalized? My grandmother is also still alive, so my mom isn't sitting there with the trust to distribute I guess?
Anyways I hope this all makes sense, I know this needs to be addressed by an estate attorney. But my mom called me very upset of course and may not get in right away so I was hoping someone could shed some light on this?