ConcernedDad69
New Member
I have looked through many of your threads and can't seem to find the information I am looking for. I have a 9 year old son. I have been divorced since 2004 originally had every weekend and every other Monday visitation. In 2005 my ex requested modification because she wanted every other weekends. I was not going to only have my son 4 days a month so I relocated my residence, existing family and career almost an hour and a half way to be in the same town as my sons school. In the spring of 2006 a decision was finally made that we would share residency and visitation. I now have my son every other WEEK (7 days consectively). Since then my son has been transferred to a closer private school and doing much better academically. I relocated again closer to the private school and have purchased a permanent home. My ex just recently is threatening to "go back to court" and i will be an "every other weekend dad" because things are not going her way because she lives further away from the school and it is harder on her. The school change was a joint decision two years ago. I am still finically paying for the lawyer fees I incurred over the past modification. I have nothing to hide but I am worried if she does request another modification I will lose the time i have with my son. I also don't know if i can afford another lawyer this time. What should i do to prevent losing my son? I have tried reasoning with her as much as possible but some of her requests are just outrageous.
