Eskimobutterfly
New Member
A friend of the family helped me purchase a house 14 years ago.  A year later he said he was losing his home, I brought him to live with me. At this time he is 74 and I am 38.  The deed and all paper work has both of our names as owners.  I am worried with his age and health that if he required long term care I could lose the house to pay for his medical expenses.  He has no insurance or family.  He will not sign a quit claim unless I agree to life tenancy for he and my own mother(she is not interested).  Again we are not related, we have never had a relationship other than friends, I brought him to live with me after he "lost" his own home.  I have made all mortgage payments, property taxes and utilities.  I am very grateful for his assistance in purchasing this house, I don't want to lose all the equity in this home to pay for his expenses.  He has extensive credit card debt, and his only income is social security.  How can I protect myself?