I came here yesterday and saw a message from a divorced father seeking advice about signing over rights for his children. He was in a bad spot, unemployed, and owed child-support. Two of the forum members, Duranie and Jacksgal, instead of offering advice, chose instead to attack the man personally and suspect his motives. If you want to help someone, help them. If you find you cannot do that without outright judging them or attacking them, turn off your computer and leave it to someone who can act more objectively. It's that simple.