Me and my husband got into a fight about 2 weeks ago and he hit me for the first time in front of the kids and a friend called the cops. they arrested him and are now charging him with assault and battery and 3 counts of child cruelty in the 3rd degree (for hitting me in front of the kids,) and now i am not allowed to even WRITE him a letter...... do i have any rights reguarding this since Im NOT the one who called the cops and im NOT the one who pressed charges? i so badly want to see my husband and i would like to be able to write him a letter but i dont know how to do it..... ive never been in this perdicament before so i am lost and confused and dont know where to go from here