I REALLY need help

[punkjtek]

I sound silly for being on this website at only tha age of 13. However, I know that it is illegal for minors to have sex. Yet, i bear the question:

If a minor thinks she may be pregnant, due to a week-late menstrual period and an unusual craving for something she never wants, will she be forced to have a child at such a young age?

A bigger issue is that the male is turning 18 this December and is fine with having a child. My mother dislikes him and is not informed of what is happening between us. Honestly, if she knew, I would be disowned from the family for such an ignorant act. :no:

I REALLY need help on this. I can not bear a child for I am one myself. I know this is an awful situation which is why i decided to seek help. I'm not lying to you or trying to be over-dramtic. I really do need your advice. Even it's sort of harsh, a comment will be of some service. PLEASE help me.

 

[Duranie]

Where are you located? Are you only 13? It is illegal for this guy to have sex at his age and your age, he has committed a crime. If you think you might be pregnant you need to take a home pregnancy test. You can buy them for 1.00 at the dollar store. Secondly, you should call around to a planned parenthood and see if you can get in ASAP. You might be able to terminate the pregnancy. You should look in the phone book to see about any sort of teen hotlines that might be able to help you besides planned parenthood.