SyntaxNero
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Married: 1999
Divorced: 2007
Number of Kids: 3
Ages: 3, 5 and 7
Location of ex-wife & kids: Reno Nevada
My current Location: Fort Leavenworth Kansas
My status: Currently Re-married and have 4 step kids living with me.
Background:
Ex-wife chose collage and personal gain over family and kids. She filed for divorce. The only reason she kept the kids was because the Army would not allow me to be a single parent. After the divorce was final she moved to Reno Nevada. Come to find out she was living with her mother, who was a roommate herself in a two bedroom trailer for 5 months. The ex-wife got her a job and an apartment. I have been able to see my kids all of 9 days and that's only because the ex-wife would let my mother watch the kids and I would come over and visit with them.
The ex-wife has full physical custody but we share legal custody and I also have a standard court issue visitation schedule.
Issue:
I have just found out that my 7 year old has been kicked out of 2 public schools and three daycares for "throwing a melt down fit" From what I understand he get mad/upset and curls up in to a ball and screams at the top of lungs for up to an hour or more. Last week, he got mad at his sitter and ran out the door and was gone for over 20 min before anyone found him. I called CPS and the Reno PD but they did NOTHING. Then two days after that he ran off again and was gone for almost an hour. I called CPS and the Reno PD but they did NOTHING, again. Then the ex-wife left him in the apartment by himself and drove 48 miles to another town to "see if she got a job". My son called my mother at work and she came and picked him up until the ex-wife returned. Once again, I called CPS and Reno PD and they did nothing. Now my mother is forbidden to she the kids.
Now the ex-wife is putting my son on Anti Anxiety drugs and I do not want him to take them. I know the issues they are having is due to the way the ex-wife treats them.
The ex-wife has stopped paying on all the debts that have both our names on them. Yes, the divorce papers say they are all hers... She told me that they will come after me not her, so she doesn't care. I had to empty my TSP account to stop from being sued on one of the debts. She has done this to insure that I can't afford to fight for my kids or even have the funds to go and see them.
I have no idea what to do.
Divorced: 2007
Number of Kids: 3
Ages: 3, 5 and 7
Location of ex-wife & kids: Reno Nevada
My current Location: Fort Leavenworth Kansas
My status: Currently Re-married and have 4 step kids living with me.
Background:
Ex-wife chose collage and personal gain over family and kids. She filed for divorce. The only reason she kept the kids was because the Army would not allow me to be a single parent. After the divorce was final she moved to Reno Nevada. Come to find out she was living with her mother, who was a roommate herself in a two bedroom trailer for 5 months. The ex-wife got her a job and an apartment. I have been able to see my kids all of 9 days and that's only because the ex-wife would let my mother watch the kids and I would come over and visit with them.
The ex-wife has full physical custody but we share legal custody and I also have a standard court issue visitation schedule.
Issue:
I have just found out that my 7 year old has been kicked out of 2 public schools and three daycares for "throwing a melt down fit" From what I understand he get mad/upset and curls up in to a ball and screams at the top of lungs for up to an hour or more. Last week, he got mad at his sitter and ran out the door and was gone for over 20 min before anyone found him. I called CPS and the Reno PD but they did NOTHING. Then two days after that he ran off again and was gone for almost an hour. I called CPS and the Reno PD but they did NOTHING, again. Then the ex-wife left him in the apartment by himself and drove 48 miles to another town to "see if she got a job". My son called my mother at work and she came and picked him up until the ex-wife returned. Once again, I called CPS and Reno PD and they did nothing. Now my mother is forbidden to she the kids.
Now the ex-wife is putting my son on Anti Anxiety drugs and I do not want him to take them. I know the issues they are having is due to the way the ex-wife treats them.
The ex-wife has stopped paying on all the debts that have both our names on them. Yes, the divorce papers say they are all hers... She told me that they will come after me not her, so she doesn't care. I had to empty my TSP account to stop from being sued on one of the debts. She has done this to insure that I can't afford to fight for my kids or even have the funds to go and see them.
I have no idea what to do.