- Jurisdiction
- Maryland
It's my house my father bought me after they got divorced four year ago, and I'm still a 22 years old full time student without any income. My mother is not making any money right now, my father is the one supporting me financially, and he told me to help her whenever she needs it. I never keep track but by looking in to my bank account, I have transfer her over 40,000 dollars in the past 10 month. Excluding I'm paying for every insurance and all the bills for internet/phones/etcetera.
She is losing her house from a foreclosure caused by not paying her mortgage. Now she moved in to my house with my brother, her 12-year-old son (we have different fathers, but my father supported him since the day he was born), after she screamed at me for not "welcoming" them beforehand.
I tried to pretend that I don't mind living with her, but it's getting harder to do so. We don't eat or cook together because she don't want to "cook for me". It's fine but she keeps taking my food. I calculate what I need for each meal before shopping, then after she takes them, I only get less food. I tried to talk to her but after she promise she won't takes it again, she takes it again.
We have little conflict here and there but I was still able to let them go. But now she doesn't let me sleep in peace anymore.
She was slamming the door all the time, and come in to my bedroom to use my bathroom because she doesn't want to share with her son. I really don't mind these as long as I'm not sleeping, but I never said anything to her.
Yesterday, my brother start yelling because of itchiness (yes, he was yelling because his leg was itchy) at 4 am in the morning and they were yelling so hard that I can't sleep(it's loud enough to wake me, and I was so tired and only fell asleep after 2 am for school work). I waited for about 20 minutes; it didn't seem to gonna stop at all so I went to their room to ask them to keep it down. My brother stopped but she started to scream about I'm trying to kill my brother by not letting him scream when he feels uncomfortable. She kept screaming for about 10 minutes saying I'm trying to kill them and she will call the police to take me away. Whole thing ended with me taking my brother to my room and he slept fine.
I'm really at my limit right now. I'm in my own house but my stuff keep missing, my food keep getting taken, and I can't get the sleep I need. I really need my mother to get out, but it's so hard because of my brother, I love him and he have no faults in this. Is there anything I can do to get out of this situation?
She is losing her house from a foreclosure caused by not paying her mortgage. Now she moved in to my house with my brother, her 12-year-old son (we have different fathers, but my father supported him since the day he was born), after she screamed at me for not "welcoming" them beforehand.
I tried to pretend that I don't mind living with her, but it's getting harder to do so. We don't eat or cook together because she don't want to "cook for me". It's fine but she keeps taking my food. I calculate what I need for each meal before shopping, then after she takes them, I only get less food. I tried to talk to her but after she promise she won't takes it again, she takes it again.
We have little conflict here and there but I was still able to let them go. But now she doesn't let me sleep in peace anymore.
She was slamming the door all the time, and come in to my bedroom to use my bathroom because she doesn't want to share with her son. I really don't mind these as long as I'm not sleeping, but I never said anything to her.
Yesterday, my brother start yelling because of itchiness (yes, he was yelling because his leg was itchy) at 4 am in the morning and they were yelling so hard that I can't sleep(it's loud enough to wake me, and I was so tired and only fell asleep after 2 am for school work). I waited for about 20 minutes; it didn't seem to gonna stop at all so I went to their room to ask them to keep it down. My brother stopped but she started to scream about I'm trying to kill my brother by not letting him scream when he feels uncomfortable. She kept screaming for about 10 minutes saying I'm trying to kill them and she will call the police to take me away. Whole thing ended with me taking my brother to my room and he slept fine.
I'm really at my limit right now. I'm in my own house but my stuff keep missing, my food keep getting taken, and I can't get the sleep I need. I really need my mother to get out, but it's so hard because of my brother, I love him and he have no faults in this. Is there anything I can do to get out of this situation?