- Jurisdiction
- Missouri
My grandson will turn 17 in January. His mom, my daughter, passed away 1 year, 15 days ago. My grandson has been living with me since. He has always had the standard every other weekend visitations with his dad. He continues to have the same visitation schedule. He has extended periods during holidays and summer vacation. My grandson has repeatedly stated (to his dad, to his attorney at Ladim, to my attorney) that he does not want to live with his dad but stay with me and his older brother and keep the same visitation schedule. His dad refuses to sign the consent form inspite of my grandson repeatedly telling him he was not going to live with him. He has never lived with him. First court date his dad shows up without a lawyer, my grandson reiterates to him in the presence of my lawyer and the attorney et Ladim that he does not want to leave with him. His dad says he will not force him and in the same sentence says he now wants to get a lawyer. The court was continued for three months to allow him to get a lawyer, home and background checks done. My grandson is still continuing his visitations (which is something I do encourage). We went back to court Dec. 13, 2 days after the year anniversary of my grandson's mom passing. His dad shows up 20 minutes late, in the middle of our proceedings and WITHOUT an attorney. He now wants is visitation rights and assurances that he is not giving up parental rights in writing which is what we were striving for IN THE BEGINNING. Not to mention we are the only ones with legal fees. Well again the judge continued the case to allow my lawyer to draft the agreement. Now we are talking about another $800-900 legal bill on top of the other almost $1,700 already paid. I am hesitate to go back to court and incur these fees because this is money that should be out away for my grandson's college fund. What are my repercussions if we do not and he is 17? Thank you in advance for any advice provided, it is appreciated.